For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!
I was at a seminar recently. The people who had put it together did a great job, and the information they were giving us was interesting and useful. They had clearly planned and prepared. Most of the audience were paying close attention, nodding along, asking questions.
There were two people near me who were on their phones. Their tapping and scrolling was distracting, and it felt rude to the people who had worked hard to put the event together.
Here’s my wish—if you’re in the audience, can you put your phone away? If you have to be on your phone, can you leave?
Make a decision about where you are and what you’re doing, and commit to it.