Don’t fight the existing reality. Instead…

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.”–R. Buckminster Fuller

R. Buckminster Fuller was a thinker, architect, designer, and futurist, among other occupations. The above quote seems particularly resonant for this moment in time, when our existing reality is so fraught with injustice and dysfunction.  


How can we render the existing status quo obsolete? What are the new models we can create? I don’t know the exact steps, but I know that that kind of change requires imagination and bravery. A willingness to try and fail, to experiment, and to have people think you’re crazy.


But the potential to make change, to create systems that work more effectively for more people…isn’t that worth it?