Everything can’t be a crisis.

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

If you’re the leader, a big part of your job is to prioritize. You’ve got to get that broad view of the situation, assess what’s going on, and triage.


When you fail to do this, when you act like everything is the most important thing, you are abdicating your role and leaving your team in the lurch. They’ll start determining what’s really an emergency and what can wait, and their decisions may be at odds with each other.


It can be scary to be the decision-maker, but you’re there to set the course.