There is a certain moment that frequently happens in a coaching session. It comes fairly early, after the small talk, when I say, “Okay, great. Let’s dive into your presentation.” At least 60% of the time, the client says, “Wait, now?”
Yep, now. The way to get better is to practice, with targeted and expert feedback. The client has hired me to coach their communication skills, so I need to see them do the thing they’re there to improve.
The client, understandably, feels some hesitation to start. The situation can feel artificial, especially if we’re working virtually. They look around like, I’m going to do my keynote here in my living room? Looking at you in that rectangle? Self-consciousness kicks in.
But think about where professionals practice their skills. Athletes practice shooting hoops in the driveway, hitting balls in batting cages, putting golf balls into a cup on the floor. Actors rehearse in rooms with the set taped out on the floor and chairs shoved together to make a couch. Singers practice wherever they happen to be.
The point of practicing is to let go of the irrelevant externals. You turn your focus toward yourself and what you’re trying to improve. You do that over and over again, gaining insight and getting coaching, and improving a little every time.
Finally, it’s the big day. You’re ready for the speech. And now, because of all the practice, you can turn your attention away from yourself and focus on the real job–creating an experience for the audience.
One of the best ways to practice is to have some accountability. The Public Speaking Catalyst gives you peer and coaching support to practice these essential skills in a safe and nurturing space.
We are enrolling now through December 18, 2020. Email me with your questions!!
