Simply Doing the Thing Isn’t a Replacement for Practice

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

Many good public speakers speak so often that it can seem redundant to practice. If you’re addressing groups large and small a couple times a week, doesn’t that become its own practice?

Not really. The value of true practice—working through a piece methodically, being videoed, getting knowledgable feedback, trying sections over and over until the speaker inhabits the material—can’t be replaced. After all, when we are speaking to the audience, there are no do-overs, there’s little reflection, and there’s typically no constructive feedback. And what do we hear afterwards? The speech was good! Or at least good enough. 

Understandably, most people think,”Hey, I’m doing fine. I don’t get nervous, I’m comfortable, and I kicked that ‘um’ habit ten years ago. I’m good.” This confidence is a double-edged sword: it helps us show up and speak, but it also leads to complacency.

How much more effective could we be if we really practiced? We can’t level up when we are always delivering.

Targeted practice that includes establishing a deliberate intention, working through the whole speech out loud, polishing transitions, and getting some sort of feedback doesn’t have to take a long time, but the incremental improvement we experience with each opportunity to speak is invaluable.