Taking Direction

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

When an actor auditions for a role in a play, one thing the director wants to discover is how well they take direction. This can mean various things to different directors, but for me, “taking direction” means:

Can this person see a different perspective? Can they approach this moment with curiosity? Can they put the work they’ve already done aside to try something new? Can they execute even when they don’t completely agree? Most importantly, can we build enough trust together so that we can experiment, and find what truly works?

Happily, taking direction isn’t just for actors. We can all benefit from suspending judgment, actively listening, approaching a new situation with curiosity, and creating trust.