The unavoidable

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

When we bought our house in 2004, we were smitten with the delightful creek that runs through the rear of the back yard. It provides a constant background of gentle rushing water, and it looks lovely in its banks surrounded by wildflowers.

 

What we couldn’t see was the way that the creek, years and several huge storms in the future, would jump its bank upstream from us, flooding our front and back yards repeatedly, and causing major property damage to our neighbor, whose house has been flooded three or four times.

 

What do we do about the unavoidable?

 

We couldn’t predict that this sweet feature of our neighborhood would become a bug. We had no way of knowing that the weather would become a source of worry—what will this next summer thunderstorm bring?  At first, I was frustrated with the me of 2004.  Why did I get a house with a creek in the back? Why didn’t I ask more questions?

 

But there aren’t many lessons there. There’s not a lot I can glean from looking back. What’s unavoidable, what I need to think about, is the next thunderstorm, the next flood.

 

What is my plan now that I know that the unavoidable is coming?

 

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When there is no Plan B