What we walk around with.

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

I started seeing a physical therapist recently for some back pain I’ve been having. In the course of our initial session, she pointed out that, even when I reported to her that I was totally relaxed, I was holding tension in different parts of my body. It wasn’t until she gently touched the areas in question that I could feel that what I had been thinking of as “relaxed,” wasn’t. I could let go of holding that muscle, and I would feel it loosen.

 
What else are we walking around with that we aren’t aware of? What do we carry through our days that we could put down, if only we knew what our burden was?

What if it’s not?

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