What’s happening down the block

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

On my way to work this morning, I stopped at a street blocked off by emergency vehicles, and saw first responders giving CPR to someone in the small park nearby. I turned off my radio as I sat at the light, next to yet quite part of this scene taking place. I was struck by the contrast between the urgency in the movements of the emergency crew and the slow strolling of the tourists who happened to be approaching the park, not knowing what was happening just a few yards away.

We know what’s going on in our own heads, and that’s about it. What would it mean to broaden our scope of awareness, to wonder what is happening with others, to develop deep curiosity about the perspectives and experiences of people who are different from us? We can never know what’s happening down the block, out of sight. But we can work to truly see and hear those around us.