Who Needs to Hear You?

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

A question I get a lot when coaching public speaking is: How do I reach everyone in my audience? What can I do to make sure every single person receives my message?


Short answer: You can’t do it. Even in a small group, everyone there has different priorities, interests, and backgrounds. If you try to create a message that reaches them all, chances are that you’ll reach no one.


Longer, hopefully more helpful answer: Instead of focusing on how to reach everyone, think about how to get your message to a specific someone. Who is your message really for? What do they need? How can you help?


When you niche down your audience from “everyone within the sound of my voice” to “people who run small companies who are looking for ways to integrate specific strategies I know about,” you immediately make your talk more relevant to the people who really need to hear it.


Ideally, you will create your talk so that the folks you made it for are blown away, and the folks who aren’t quite in your target market will still be thinking about your ideas.

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