Yet Another Reason to Practice

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

One reason to practice is to approximate the discomfort of the real thing.

Doesn’t sound fun, does it?

Athletes train in order to build their speed, skill, and strength, but also to get familiar with what it feels like to be deeply uncomfortable. Knowing that the 800 meter dash creates a specific sensation is valuable information for the runner, and they need to know what it feels like before they get to the big race.

When we practice a presentation or a talk, we may feel silly or self-conscious. That’s good! If we don’t have the experience of nervousness or self-consciousness when we practice, we might be unpleasantly surprised by it when we show up for the real thing.

Discomfort is the primary reason we don’t practice, and it’s the primary reason we should.

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