Being Good at It Is More Fun

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

It’s more fun to already be good at it, whatever it is. 

Riding a bike, playing the guitar, sound editing…we want to be able to do it like we’ve seen others do it, effortlessly, gracefully, efficiently. 

But getting there is hard work, most of it behind the scenes. And that hard work isn’t always fun. In fact, it’s usually a combination of sacrifice, failure, and wondering whether it’s worth it.

What happens when we look toward our wished-for outcome through the tough days of practice? What if we work on changing our mindset to appreciating the labor of the practice, rather than resenting that we haven’t already mastered it?