Getting back on the horse.

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

It could happen.

 

You’ve prepared, you’ve planned your talk using a strong intention,  you know just how you want to affect your audience, and you’ve practiced. You walk up there, open your mouth…and flop.

 

What do you do when you feel it going wrong? How can you save it?

 

I’ve been in this exact situation, and I know how it feels. What’s happening? Why can’t I get words to come out in the right order? Why can’t I remember what I wanted to say? Why isn’t the acumen responding the way I thought they would? Ugh, this is a disaster.

 

This, right here, is the moment you’ve been waiting for. This is when your intention is going to serve you like a parachute does a pilot who had to eject from his plane.

 

Pause. Take a breath. Think, “What am I here to do? What do I want my audience to walk away thinking or feeling? What’s my intention?”

 

This process will bring you away from the death spiral of self-sabotaging thoughts, and back into relationship with your audience. They don’t want you to fail. They want you to succeed, and more importantly, they want to be changed by your words.

 

What do you have to offer them?

 

Read more about how Ignite coaches people to talk to any audience with confidence.

 

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