You Can Do Less

Angie Flynn-McIver

Angie Flynn-McIver

For several years, I sent out a blog to readers a few times a week. These posts gave pointers about how to practice, shared relevant stories, and provided a way for people to connect with my coaching approach. In 2022, I wrote my book, Before You Say Anything, which brought many of these ideas together in one place. The blog posts have continued to resonate with clients and readers, and they're useful as a quick reminder, so I'm including them here!

Sometimes it feels like there’s a school of thought in public speaking training that “more is more.” Do more with your voice, more with your gestures, more with your movement. If some is good, more must be better!

My view on this is that it gets confusing for the audience when we load up every word and syllable with vocal inflection and gestures. It’s too much to process. People don’t communicate like that generally, so we’re overwhelmed with messages when someone does their talk this way.

If you recognize this tendency in yourself, good news: you can do less! It’s like that famous Coco Chanel (or maybe Gracie Allen?) quote: “Before you leave the house, look at yourself in the mirror and take one thing off.” Don’t over-accessorize your talk; let the words you’ve chosen do their work.